Facts to know about breastfeeding...

 Facts to know about breastfeeding

         

  As a mother, you must know some medically proved facts which can help you so much to care your newborn.

• Breastfeeding must be started immediately or at least within one hour after the birth. The newborn should not be given anything else, not even water.
• The baby should put to the mother’s breast even before placenta is delivered. It is useful for both the baby as well as the mother.
• Feeding more often helps in production of more milk. The more the baby sucks more milk produced.
• Baby should not be given any other liquid or food such as sugar, water, honey, cow’s milk and not even water.
• Many families think that in some situation as; age of mother, sexual intercourse, Return of menstruation, disapproval of relatives or neighbours, Age of baby, caesarean section or due to simple and ordinary diet, their milk is not enough.

         But, in fact, these do not affect the breast milk supply. 

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New Parenting quote...

WE never know

 the love of our Parents for us;

 till we have become

 Parents...!!! 

Instead of talking about 'good Vs.

bad parenting' I think of it as 

'effective Vs. ineffective parenting'

if you're doing something that's ineffective

with your child right now 

there is always hope, because you can change

When kids focus on

excuses

parents need to focus on responsibility.

-James Lehman

YOU

enable your child

to do more than

anyone thought

possible.

Don't argue with kids.When you argue

with your child, you give him

power, Instead, focus on making the behaviour

powerless and than give consequences

to hold him accountable.

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Bad signs of extreme bad parenting...

 Some recognized bad signs of

 extreme bad parenting.

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      As we have discussed earlier that no parents are bad parents, intentionally, and if there are some, they are rare and conditional. In fact, most of the parents perform effectively but some are not as effective as others. And, unfortunately, some parents, due to lack of education; poor ethics and beliefs; their non-experienced and impractical acts and behavior, they go down from the zero-level of the practices. They perform themselves badly and so negatively but again, not intentionally. Mostly these parents have no any clear vision and future forecasting for kids. They are mostly out of main stream people. I must add here that each and every parent must be aware enough and they must avoid the bad practices of extreme bad parenting styles.

These are some recognized signs of the extreme bad parenting: -

•  When the parents’ abuse, beat, frighten or threaten their kids. It includes all of mental, physical and verbal levels.
• When they avoid, neglect or ignore their kids.
• When they make them ashamed before others or complain to others about their kids.
• When they don’t know what the kids do aback them or what they can.
• When they negatively criticize or demoralize their kids before others.
• When they compare their kids with other children and try to prove them better than their kids.
• When they become so aggressive and tempered as their kids become unable to talk to them.
• When they become demanding.
• When they bicker, shout, scream and fight with spouse or family members in front of kids.
• When they pressurize their kids to obey their each wrong or right instructions and directions.
• When they misunderstand, miss-communicate or misinterpret their kids feeling, thought, behavior, words or actions.
• When they don’t know how and how much to punish their kids. Mostly they punish their kids without fault or more than the fault.
• When they make words like –“ I’ll kick you out of home just now!” or  “there is no food for you at home “
• When they try to restrict their kids’ feeling and thoughts.
• When they become irritate and burst out in anger while answering their kids’ innocent questions.
• When they demotivate their kids in place of motivation.
• When they keep their kids with others (out of sight) for nurture.
• When they pressurize their kids to work against their skill and say at the end, “ you can’t do any job”
• When they don’t know, their wives are ready for the next delivery and again they don’t know what to do about the next.
• when they are not aware about their kids' collection of bad habits and manners.
• When they don't do what they commit.
• When they are not ready to re-check and change themselves.

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New quotes for new generation...

New quotes for new generation by SKM

Loves of all of all time are lesser than a moment of Mom’s love.

A mother is she who can take the place of all others

 but whose place no one else can take.

                                                                   Anonymous

If you really love and want to serve your parents, commit with yourself not to let them alone in their old-age. 

Love your parents. We are so busy growing up, we often forget that they are also growing old.

                                                               Anonymous

The most beautiful thing in this world is to see your parents smiling and knowing that you are the
 reasons behind the same.

                                                                        Makemestfu.com

Sobbing and cursing of your parents due to you, is a big

 sign of adding  some unbearable happenings

 and repentance in your life by yourself.

If you have even forgotten your bad deeds with your parents, No problem ! Your own kids will make you remembered all these soon, because

 they have learnt now, how to

 behave with old parents.

We never understand the meaning of beating and loving at the same time of our parents, till we have got kids our own.

Never believe those people who disrespect and slight their parents.

Your parents may not be so caring, practical and intelligent as you expect but you must respect them because what

 they do for you, do with a right intention to make

 you caring, practical and intelligent, actually.

Demanding a son and rejecting a daughter is a distortion of our healthy society and a curse to the next generation as “people with destroyed home”.

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Signs of good going breastfeeding...

Breastfeeding Management

        

 Signs of good going Breastfeeding: This review can make you learn the benefits of breastfeeding for the baby and mother and all about the sign of good going breastfeeding and the difficulties which arise during the  breastfeeding process.

Benefits of breastfeeding for the baby:

• It is always important to keep a baby warm. Early skin-to-skin contact keeps the baby warm.
• It helps in early secretion of breast milk.
• Helps mother and baby to develop a close and loving relationship.

Benefits of breastfeeding for the mother:

• Reduce the risk of excessive bleeding after birth.
• Reduce the risk of sore on Nipples or engorged and painful breast feeding (‘delayed intention of breastfeeding’ or’ no breastfeeding’ causes many internal and external problems to the mother.

When should you understand that everything is going well with your breastfeeding?

• When the mother is comfortable, confident and feels her body relaxed. She has eye contact with baby and feels pleasure in touch.
• When baby’s mouth is well attached covering most of the areola ( the black or brown natural mark around the nipple)  of the breast. Baby’s mouth opens wide and lower lips turns outwards.
• When the baby sucks well, sucks deeply and takes pauses during the feeding. Milk swallowing by the baby is seen or heard generally in normal breastfeeding.

• When the baby is calm and alert for milk sucking and stays attached.

Signs of difficulties of breastfeeding:

• When the mother is not comfortable and feels tense. She leans over body and have not much eye contact or touching. When the baby’s mouth does not open wide and cover areola part of the breast. Lips are around the nipples.
• When there is a rapid sucks, cheeks tense or sucked in smacking or clicking sounds.
• Baby is restless or crying, slips at breast; mother doesn’t feel cramping. No milk is leaking (showing that milk is not flowing).
• After feed, breast full or enlarged, nipples may be red, cracked, flat or inverted. 

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