Bad signs of extreme bad parenting...

 Some recognized bad signs of

 extreme bad parenting.

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      As we have discussed earlier that no parents are bad parents, intentionally, and if there are some, they are rare and conditional. In fact, most of the parents perform effectively but some are not as effective as others. And, unfortunately, some parents, due to lack of education; poor ethics and beliefs; their non-experienced and impractical acts and behavior, they go down from the zero-level of the practices. They perform themselves badly and so negatively but again, not intentionally. Mostly these parents have no any clear vision and future forecasting for kids. They are mostly out of main stream people. I must add here that each and every parent must be aware enough and they must avoid the bad practices of extreme bad parenting styles.

These are some recognized signs of the extreme bad parenting: -

•  When the parents’ abuse, beat, frighten or threaten their kids. It includes all of mental, physical and verbal levels.
• When they avoid, neglect or ignore their kids.
• When they make them ashamed before others or complain to others about their kids.
• When they don’t know what the kids do aback them or what they can.
• When they negatively criticize or demoralize their kids before others.
• When they compare their kids with other children and try to prove them better than their kids.
• When they become so aggressive and tempered as their kids become unable to talk to them.
• When they become demanding.
• When they bicker, shout, scream and fight with spouse or family members in front of kids.
• When they pressurize their kids to obey their each wrong or right instructions and directions.
• When they misunderstand, miss-communicate or misinterpret their kids feeling, thought, behavior, words or actions.
• When they don’t know how and how much to punish their kids. Mostly they punish their kids without fault or more than the fault.
• When they make words like –“ I’ll kick you out of home just now!” or  “there is no food for you at home “
• When they try to restrict their kids’ feeling and thoughts.
• When they become irritate and burst out in anger while answering their kids’ innocent questions.
• When they demotivate their kids in place of motivation.
• When they keep their kids with others (out of sight) for nurture.
• When they pressurize their kids to work against their skill and say at the end, “ you can’t do any job”
• When they don’t know, their wives are ready for the next delivery and again they don’t know what to do about the next.
• when they are not aware about their kids' collection of bad habits and manners.
• When they don't do what they commit.
• When they are not ready to re-check and change themselves.

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